Charming Cape Cod Weddings: How to Plan Your Perfect Coastal Celebration
Just a short ish drive from NYC is one of my most favorite places on earth, The cape. Roughly six hours, which lets face it could be the same amount of time driving to the Hamptons. Growing up in Plymouth, Mass I frequented the cape often visiting extended family and beach trips. As an adult I was engaged there, married there and now have the opportunity to work there. Every summer especially I'm reminded of how magical it really is. I know it sounds corny but it's the only way I know how to describe my home away from home.
So your’e planning your wedding or next celebration? Here are some suggestions that may work for you. As always it’s recommended to onboard your planner or consultant to start since they will guide you with what will work best with your budget, desired guest count and vision.
Chequessett Yacht & Country Club – Chequessett Yacht & Country Club exudes a charming, rustic vibe. You can host your reception in the clubhouse, which features a wall of windows with panoramic bay views, or opt for the boathouse, perched directly on the beach.
Cultural Center of Cape Cod – South Yarmouth: Once a regional bank from the post-Depression era, the Cultural Center of Cape Cod has transformed into a vibrant arts hub. Its recent renovation has preserved the grandeur of the original lobby, featuring exquisite woodwork and a sparkling floor perfect for dancing the night away. Don’t miss out on the charming vintage bank vault, which makes for unique and playful photo opportunities. This venue can comfortably accommodate dinner and dancing for up to 125 guests.
Cape Cod Museum of Art – Dennis: For couples who appreciate art, the Cape Cod Museum of Art offers an exceptional setting. With six galleries showcasing both modern and historic Cape Cod art, along with a breathtaking sculpture garden and award-winning landscaping, it’s a visual delight. The on-site auditorium, which seats 90, provides a cozy and elegant space for an indoor ceremony. The venue is well-suited for dinner and dancing, accommodating up to 125 guests.
Nauticus Marina – Osterville: Nestled in one of Cape Cod’s most picturesque villages, Nauticus Marina embodies the essence of beach chic. The stunning views of yachts gliding in and out of the harbor rival the beauty of the surrounding water. Ideal for larger celebrations, this venue can host dinner and dancing for up to 200 guests under a spacious tent.
Kalmar Village – North Truro: Kalmar Village exudes classic Cape Cod charm, reminiscent of Patti Page’s “Old Cape Cod.” This timeless venue features rows of quaint vintage cottages surrounding an expansive green lawn. The private beach offers breathtaking views of the Provincetown skyline, adding a touch of magic to your event. With a tented option, Kalmar Village is perfect for larger gatherings, accommodating dinner and dancing for up to 250 guests.
Pamet Harbor Yacht and Tennis Club – Truro: The Pamet Harbor Yacht and Tennis Club is a standout Outer Cape venue featuring a clubhouse with a wrap-around deck offering stunning water views. You can say your vows on the beach and then move to the clubhouse for a memorable reception. Ideal for intimate gatherings, the venue accommodates dinner and dancing for up to 125 guests, with the option to add a tent for larger celebrations.
You’re making your wedding or event a weekend experience. What better way to welcome in guests than with welcome drinks and dinner? Here are some suggestions for just that.
Truro Winery holds a special place in my heart, as it was the venue for my own rehearsal dinner. Guests enjoyed tasting wines from the vineyard and received a mini tour to see the winemaking process up close. We celebrated in a charming covered outdoor space, where guests loved capturing memories against the backdrop of the grapevines. Truro’s exquisite seaside light and the pristine vineyard grounds create a breathtaking setting. The natural beauty of Truro Vineyards has made it the backdrop for some of Cape Cod’s most stunning weddings. Create your own unforgettable moments here, surrounded by lush vines and the Outer Cape’s iconic golden light.
The Copper Swan as your wedding venue is a timeless decision for one of life’s most memorable days. Whether you're envisioning an intimate gathering of 20 or a grand celebration for over 100, The Copper Swan offers a stunning Cape Cod setting with a wealth of complimentary services and amenities.
Spanning five acres, the property presents a variety of event options, both indoors and outdoors, for your special ceremony and reception. The iconic Captain’s House and Carriage House provide convenient, on-site accommodations for you and your guests, ensuring a seamless and elegant experience.
Clam bakes etc What's more cape cod then a clambake? Host your welcome dinner and wow guests from out of town for what could be their first clambake. I love this timeliness tradition and it what a unique experience. This is also a fun idea for your wedding reception, anniversary party, birthday or corporate event.
Other fun activity ideas for guests, bachelor or bachelorette parties?
Group surf lessons Sugar Surf, I love this business and have personally taken classes with them. This would be fun for a bach party or a small group activity. Fun fact this business is women owned!
Biking and boating rentals rideawayadventures
Winery tasting cape cod winery
Drive In Well Fleet Cinemas
Favorite restaurants